Two Deceptively Simple Questions That Are Screwing Your Business Over

How many times this year did you helped a potential customer without asking to be paid?

How many times did you type out long, thoughtful, helpful email conversations with your readers, answering their every question but never pointing them to your paid consulting page?

How many times have you shared a premium secret from your latest ebook with someone just because you didn’t have the guts to say, “It’s in my book, would you like to buy it?”

You’re getting totally screwed over right now.

And the worst part is that it’s by you.

I take that back.

The worst part is that two simple questions are screwing you over.

How you answer these two simple question is holding back your solo-business and keeping your profit levels low and your stress levels high.

Of course the good news is that, if you can reconcile your answers, you can reverse that trend and send your stress level down and profits up, up, up.

So what are the questions?

  1. What do you do?
  2. What does your business do?

Told you they were simple.

But how do you answer them?

Are your answers the same for both?

“I’m a blogger.”

“My business is a blog that helps readers solve X, Y and Z.”

If that sounds about right, you’re in trouble because I need to lay a little hard, entrepreneurial truth on ya:

What You Do And What Your Business Does Are Two Different Things

You help people.

You solve problems.

You kick serious ass for your customers.

That’s you.

Your business doesn’t help people.

Your business doesn’t solve problems.

Your business makes money.

Period.

It makes you cash so you can continue kicking serious ass without worrying about a day job.

But your business does not, and I repeat, does not do what you do.

The division of labor keeps everything running smoothly; you help, the business collects.

When you help and your business helps, there’s nobody left to collect. You forget to make money because you’re only in business to help.

Of course you also can’t pay the rent or keep your lights on so your help doesn’t reach very many people

Always Charge For A Premium

You know me, I’m a big believer in free. I love my blog because it let’s me give 90% of what I do away for free and still make money charging for the other 10%.

But my business plan works because I have a premium line that freebie seekers don’t get cross.

Don’t be afraid to charge for your service, it’s why you created your business in the first place.

You provide the awesome, the biz provides the cash.

It’s hard for a lot of “artistic types” to wrap our heads around, I know.

We like helping people, it makes us feel good to provide that answer that changes everything for someone who thought there was no hope.

But your customers don’t need a helpful martyr and if you really want to help a lot of people, you need the resources to reach them, which means money, Sonny.

This truly is a mindset that will make or break your business so If you’re having trouble with making a change and accepting payment for your services, I suggest you purchase one of my consulting calls so you and I can spend some quality 1-on-1 time working to change that mindset to one of more abundance.

The sooner you change this mindset and start embracing these two simple questions, the sooner you stop stressing over the cash flow in your business.

How To Overcome Your Fears And Excuses – 3 Steps For Doubting Entrepreneurs

Soldier Jumping Into Water

Think about it for a sec. How often do you have thoughts about what you can’t do in your business?

I can’t make a product.

I can’t be a consultant.

I can’t build a following.

I’m not good enough / smart enough / popular enough / funny enough.

These types of thoughts stop you in your tracks. You’ll miss opportunities. You’ll half ass projects that could’ve been great. You’ll miss your self-set deadlines and lose face with the few customers you gain. All because these doubts make you feel like it’s not even worth trying.

All of these doubts and excuses come from being afraid of where you are. You don’t have confidence in your abilities or what you might have to deal with. If you want to get rid of these doubts, you need to tackle that uncertainty. Here are three things you can do to help stifle those thoughts.

1. Decide If This Is Really For You

There’s nothing wrong with deciding that owning your own business just isn’t for you. Many, many people are just more comfortable with the structured environment of the 9-to-5 life. And there’s nothing wrong with the 9-to-5, if it’s your thing. But this is a decision you need to make right now – are you in or are you out?

If this isn’t for you, then stop punishing yourself and just drop all the pretense.It’s not worth hassling yourself for years and feeling like a failure when the truth is that you are smart and talented and capable – your heart just isn’t in it. Be honest enough with yourself to admit that you need something else to be happy.

If, on the other hand, you are committed to owning your own business, then knuckle down and shut up because all that worrying back and forth that you might not be good enough is distracting you and draining much needed energy.

Decide now if you’re in or out. If you’re in, then accept that you will make this work no matter what you have to do.

2. Know Your Place

Right now, I want you to rank your knowledge, experience and talent in your chosen field on a scale of 1 to 10 — 10 being perfect. Are you a solid 6? Only a 4? Be honest. Everything added up, where do you and your business fall on the scale as far as what you can give your customers?

Do you get  depressed by the number you see? Do you feel that if you aren’t a perfect 9 or 10, you have nothing to offer customers? That’s not because you aren’t good enough — it’s because you’re aiming at the wrong customers.

Let’s say you’re a 6. Sure, you can’t teach a customer at level 8 anything, but aren’t there people beneath you on that scale that could benefit from your knowledge? What about the people stuck at 4 or 5, with no idea how to climb the ladder to get to where you are? Aren’t you the perfect person to solve their problems?

All those “I’m not good enough” thoughts are running through your head because you keep comparing yourself to all the 10′s out there. You feel that only a perfect 10 can be helpful and no one will want what you, a mere 6, can offer.

Truthfully, most people don’t even need what a 10 can offer. The information a Guru at level 10 provides isn’t useful for someone at level 4. They need the next level up. They need someone who speaks their language and knows their needs. Be that person by knowing your place on the scale and solving the problems you know how to solve for the people you know how to help.  Don’t try to be a 9 or a 10. Be a solid 6 and focus on being damn good at it.

As you teach and experience more, you’ll learn more. You’ll grow into a 9  and eventually a 10 and you’ll be able to help more people accomplish more things. But for right now, find the level you can help, find out what they need from you and give it to them.

3. Learn What You Don’t Know

How many of your fears and excuses are about the gaps in your knowledge?

I don’t know anything about running a business.

I don’t know about handling the taxes for an LLC.

I don’t know about marketing.

I don’t know how to write an ebook.

So many excuses for why you’re not doing what you should be doing begin with the words “I don’t know.” It’s a classic excuse. If we don’t know it, we’re not expected to be responsible, or successful. We can fail miserably and it’s not our fault.

Problem is that too many businesses fail because of this excuse.

Our inner Manager knows that we’re missing important details, but we pass him off. He’s boring, he doesn’t dream about how great our business will be or tell us how wonderful our ideas are. All our inner Manager wants to talk about is numbers and regulations and strategy. Sa-noozefest.

We ignore him because he’s boring and we don’t understand what he’s saying and, honestly, that’s pretty damn scary. We don’t want to face what we don’t know because we’re afraid of what we might learn. Maybe we’ll learn that we’ve done everything wrong and have to start over or pay a big fine!

The truth is, all those excuses are bogus and I refer you back to step number one: if this is for you, knuckle down and shut up. Learn what you don’t know. Not only will it help you in your business, but it will go a hell of a long way in calming down your fears about running that business.

This Isn’t Theory, Start Now

Decide now that this is really what you want for yourself. Decide that no matter what gets in your way and no matter how many times you might fail, you will eventually succeed at owning your own money-making business.

Once you’re dead-set that you will achieve your goal, get clear on where you are right now and what you can do for your customers. Be honest with yourself and if there are gaps in your knowledge, fill them before you go any further.

These 3 steps are simple and straight forward and they will absolutely eliminate any and all doubt from your business. If you know someone who is suffering under the weight of their doubts and fears and could use these steps to reach new heights, there’s an email button up at the top of this post and social bookmarking buttons below. Click on one of those and help share these steps.

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